There is nothing "love at first sight" which is in terminology pronounced as infatuation which consists of an immediate, intense attraction to someone which involves chemicals changes.
A person who is infatuated finds it hard to think of anything but the other person as listened but this is usually short, however; lasting perhaps only a matter of months or as long as a year or so. It tends to be based on chemical attraction and an image of what one thinks the other is all about.
As everyone has his own list of things which attracts him like someone get attracted with beauty, some with the character, some with the certain habits or things they like.
This attraction is as much stronger as your likeness and ideology about them with lasting only for 12 minutes at first, if you get distracted while between, it would stop there and not disturb you again. As science has proven that every emotion whatever it is, exist for 12 minutes at first, then it depends upon you where you take it either to promote it further or stop it there with any distraction.
"Who knows how to control his emotions is actually the master of his life"
Feeling an attraction towards others is natural, then the game is in your own hand where you take it. If you promote it, then that particular emotion grows until you want with its presence and thoughts. When you do nothing but think about that particular thing or person every time then certainly, that emotion gets space in your heart and your hormones will boost its presence.
Same the case with anger, if within the first 12 minutes you don't get distracted with anything and continually thinking about that then it would boost up and control you then you are at the mercy of hormones which control emotions. If that anger with time gets fired with thoughts and environment, then it would become the hate the more strongest emotion than anger which takes you any where.
In your emotional management there are many things involved, such as your own nature, your thoughts, your environment & your condition that effects the process highly.
Knowing them is much necessary before control. In controlling emotions, distraction and self awareness is much important which has a clear role in the process. That's the reason when someone feels the emotional hype, the experts advice him to involve his self in physical work where he can use his energy.
After breaking up in relationships or failure from anywhere every person feels an emotional disturbance that's normal, but the person who stays with that sad and hurting emotions so long make them the part of his life and depends more on them rather opposite emotions, he takes time to cure himself but the person who gets involved in other activities and starts a new journey, come out of this loss earlier than others and moves forward.
Have you noticed when we are in sad mood we usually love to hear sad songs because of it attracts like phenomenon which enhances our emotions more and make us more sad, but if we go to the place where other things are happening we forget about that sadness within some time. In sadness people drink more and go to clubs because these things act as a distraction in the way of their sadness and forget them about the things that hurt them.
Same is the reason to love, which actually grows with time not already present here in space, if it presents, then those people might have the miraculous stories, but common love is based on attraction and likeness which covers the 12 minute interval like any other emotion and if no distraction is given there but promoted then it would stay and grow. When it has the involvement of passion, intimacy and commitment then it certainly grows and stays there for a long time even for life being.
