Yesterday I met with my teacher who is well representative personality of the City. I asked what is the thing that supports you well in your journey towards success.
She smiled and said..
When I met with my school fellow in college. They said you're changed, and When I met with college fellows in University, they also said you are charged. When my University fellow met me later, they said the same thing even some years after you will say the same thing. Actually I update myself regularly even my mother was often saying that I were the detto-copy of her but then I have gotten alot of over coatings over me. Yeah I have..
Because I update my habits, my circle, my choices, almost everything on regular basis but there are some things that never gonna change and that are values which were taught by my parents when I was child. They are same and they will remain same, no mather which updates I have.
- Like respect others, and you can't get anything without respecting others...
- Be fair with others in your dealings and it's a success key...
- Help others if you want them with you when you need ...
- Follow the boundaries that are necessary so that others may not point you...
- Be with ideology that is fair and good, no matter whatever coating you get...
So there still somethings that are with me and people also say about them oh, you are still with this old one... but I am, She continued you know I love modern world and morden ideologies but I am conservative too in somethings and I'm proud to be, because I'm with them and they are good.
You can't survive without your values, you can't exit without your identity. Where ever you may go, your roots remain same, and you can't deny them. If you don't have any choice then you don't have any ideology and don't get any concept about things.
Even your music playlist determines you. If you listen every song which is being released, sorry you don't have any choice in music and don't have music sense.
Make your own ideology, make your own concepts and make your own choices, update them too with the modern world but don't forget the basic values with which you were born.
Successful persons always have their own ideology but they also have the same hundred years old values.